I think the issue lies in the point system they use because i tried several thing with clara. 1st i choose all humiliation speech choices but didn't actually spanked her but the game says i did then i tried avoiding choices then the game acknowledge i didn't spank her. The problem in the coding is that if you have enough pts to spank her the game records it as if you did regardless of the choice, must have put the wrong pts in the code(if dom pts= 5 then spanking happened instead of 8)
But the issue with sandra is much worse i tested a path where i had -1 pt with her and still went on a date despite that i refused the invitation

, the date isn't shown but i still get +2 with emily despite never getting the scenes at home and the dinner.