Thank you all so far with your replies, this is helping so very much.

 

From an older womans point of view.. we dont like drama or bullshit. If my 15 year old is more mature than you we have a problem. Older women have lived, loved, been broken & know what they want out of life. An 18 year old really wont be much good for an older woman other than for company & good sex. With that said, a woman like me will not be making love like an 18 year old girl. A woman like me will be fucking like a real woman. Hard, rough, and very experienced yet with all the passion of a thousand orgasms. A woman like me will fuck you like crazy, take every drop of energy you have & leave you broken & wanting for more. Be careful what you wish for. Its easy to get attached & hard to forget & she may not have the time to coddle you & has already raised her kids & doesnt want more.

 

For starters, don't let on that you like them old. They will be offended you are calling them old. Am I right? (I honestly don't know.)

 

I think you're age will make it very difficult to create the attraction needed to meet an older woman. Instead, look towards a woman that you already know ? It can be a neighbor, friend of your parents, a co-worker or one of your friend's moms. Just make sure you have an established relationship that's way past the introduction. A head start can give you a confident approach for building a sexual relationship with an older woman.

 

Think about your interests and find ways to work on your interests with others - men and women. Don' try too hard to get into conversation with a woman who interests you. Most people want to meet new people, but if you are looking for more than casual friendship, at least initially, you will meet skepticism and like get little real opportunity to be with them - unless they are looking to meet a young sex partner - but if that is what they really want, you have lost the essential ingredient - she may be looking to return to her young adulthood.

Meeting her as an equal, likely with a shared interest, will go a long way to developing a relationship.

Now, as for an "older"woman being 20, get serious. I agree with ELGS.

 

Thanks for all the replies thus far, but when i mean an older woman, i mean a woman in her mid to late 30s, even up to mid 40s.

 

And that just makes me feel OLD

Not the way to impress

 

I've no idea, yet I'm so old I'm probably considered a Saber Tooth Tiger.

Hush.....an alias

 

Well, I have understood that women became more sexual as they get older. I don;t really agree with that statement with the internet there to draw young women into fun experiences that few might have even been aware of. At the same time - women over 40 - "Experienced"!

 

Don't believe everything you hear. For every woman who finds her sexual peak in her 40's, three others drop out of the market. The rate for men is more like 5 out of 6, so for the guys who still care, the prospects become a little better, but not by much. The bright spot is that while it may not be easier to find a willing woman, the ones you do find are a lot more willing. This applies only to 40 and up men. If a 40 and older woman wants a 20 something lover, she'll pick him out and take him home. The chance she might leave with someone who approached her is very small.

 

that sounds like a horrible way of putting it.

 

It's just a fact of life. Our sex drive is powered by hormones. For men, the hormones begin a gradual decline in their 20's. Without the hormones to drive him crazy, assuming he's not crazy for other reasons, chasing women, either for casual sex or a more lasting relationship is hard work. By the age forty, 50% of single men are no longer looking for sex. They simply let it drop out of their life. When things like weight, physical appearance, and health are factored in, some men do not want to have sex. I have friends my own age, who would not take their clothes off in front of a woman, just because of embarrassment. When all that is considered, the number of eligible women outnumbers the eligible women and the gap widens with every year. My father was widowed at age 60. He was suddenly surrounded by about 10 fifty something women, all vying for his attention.
The same is true for women, with a few added complications. A forty something woman is likely to have teen children. Bringing boyfriend home could be more trouble than it's worth.