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  1. Lani87

    Lani87 Sex Lover

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    Does anyone have issues with their guy not cuming during sex or oral? I swear I have tried everything in the book. He seems really into it and I know he's attracted to me. We spend a ton of time together so I don't think he's cheating.

    What I think is that he has a huge porn habit and has formed a death grip during jacking off that obviously no pussy can grasp.

    Any tips? He tried to abstain for a while but it just didn't work. :(

    Help!
     
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    1. jhnthis
      Try get in a 69 with him and just have both of you keep going until the job is finished. Sometimes the thrill of getting off your partner while also being serviced can send you over the edge.
       
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  2. DirtyDaddy666

    DirtyDaddy666 Porno Junky

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    It's very hard for me to cum through oral, I'll get hard as hell just can't seem to be pushed over the edge. Try using your hand and mouth at the same time. Be dirty look him in the eye insist he be rough with you etc.
     
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      I know I'm fantastic during oral. Using hand to mouth. Using hand when my mouth gets tired. Dressing up in lingerie. He loves the stares during. It just seems like a freaking mental block or something. To tell you the truth I had this same problem myself. I can cum from my pussy but not from my clit which is wayyy more powerful. Urghhh I have issues lol
       
      Lani87, Oct 20, 2015
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  3. SilverLycan

    SilverLycan The XnXX Alpha Wolf

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    I have heard of this, or something similar. Basically the guy is so desensitized to everything but his own hand and pornography. He's going to have to either wean himself off pornography or cut himself off cold turkey and abstain from sex until he gets dialed down back to normal sensitivity. I doubt you can do anything to make him change. It will have to come from within himself.
     
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  4. Lani87

    Lani87 Sex Lover

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    Yea maybe we need a longer period of time not watching porn. I actually felt bad for him and let him watch. I'm a wimp lol.

    Ive actually started really getting interested in women lately. Thinking that maybe I can get them to cum. I love seeing a person get off to my hard work not to sound too crazy lol
     
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      Causing someone to orgasm is about the best thing to see during sex. I love to watch my wife as she shudders and her eyes roll back. Fantastic. So sad that you haven't been able to experience this. How long has it been since he has cum with you?
       
      springsteen79, Oct 24, 2015
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  5. Rollerbob

    Rollerbob Porn Star

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    I had that issue....
     
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  6. jp4521

    jp4521 Sex Machine

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    Sounds like he is jerking off way to much. Some guys get more into the porn and jerking off then they do sex. I don't understand but myself especially with a sexy woman like you.
     
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      if he uses lotion make him stop using it. If he doesn't use lotion make him use it.
       
      bnah17, Oct 20, 2015
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  7. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    Being over stimulated can cause many problems which mentally leads to even more issues, if he can cum during jerking off then he can with you, sometimes beautiful women and their naked bodies can cause a feeling of insecurity trying too hard to please them over just enjoying the whole experience. Sounds like your man might be suffering from something close to this and he needs to place less pressure on himself to succeed what ever that means to him?
     
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      Yea he told me that he thinks too hard about it and I tell him it's not that serious chill out even when it does bother me. He said that a lot of women have tried to scream pregnant even when he used a condom so he trained himself not to cum at all smh
       
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      Try a few less then sexual nights with more sensual play, no expectations might help build his trust in himself again?
       
      Milo Cronos, Oct 21, 2015
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      The answer to sexual problems isn't more sex, even at my age I've had to relearn a few things during similar moments I hope this helps?
       
      Milo Cronos, Oct 21, 2015
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  8. Powerpoint

    Powerpoint Amateur

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    I have a problem getting off from head and hand jobs when she goes too fast at the start. If it doesn't start with long slow strokes I generally can't cum. If it is too fast in the beginning she would have to go double as fast at the end for me to cum and her head and hand wasnt be able to go that fast for long enough. Also when giving head don't stick it in your mouth straight up, lick it and stroke it before hand.

    I felt bad for my partner because she wasn't able to get me off during head/handjobs so I had to teach her to slow down at the start and go at my pace. Now I have trouble holding my jizz back :)
     
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  9. Iplayeddoctor

    Iplayeddoctor Amateur

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    Oral sex does nothing for me, no matter how excited I am, my erection goes away as if she has, ugly feet, smokes, and has tats.....
     
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  10. awacs

    awacs Happy Man

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    Agreed on the feet part!
     
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  11. Hussie6776

    Hussie6776 Occasionally. So what..?

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    I don't always cum but I make sure my partner knows that its not any fault of theirs (unless it is!!). Making it a big deal could make it worse. Its not the 'be all and end all' of sex. If its an effort in any way to cum, chances are trying anything will be counterproductive. Keep it natural and have fun, I think that's the solution!
     
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  12. swingerguy95621

    swingerguy95621 Aspiring Hedonist

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    slide your finger against his asshole. Not inside, if you've never done it before that'd be too much of a shock to him, but just graze it or rub it while your giving him head and stroking it. Any EXTRA stimulation other than just penile, helps.

    I could also be that, being a man, he's just masturabated SOO much in his life, that he is so used to "his speed and method" I'm that way. My ex wife of 12yr couldn't get me to cum during oral...then again she wouldn't try for more than 6mins. Once she stuck her finger in my ass or even just rubbed it, i came in 10-20seconds. My gf now though, is the first woman i've ever been with, who has been so great at it (without a finger) to make me cum and she LOVES giving head. She will stop if i'm close, do something else, then go back to it, just so she can do it for longer. Until SHE wants me to cum.
     
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      Yea I used to be like that during oral with every other guy I've been with. As soon as I would start sucking it 10 mins later or less it's a wrap.
       
      Lani87, Oct 21, 2015
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  13. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    This happened to a friend of mine. The guy jacked off to porn 5 times a day and had a "death grip."

    He literally never came in her pussy. And then he blamed her for not giving him orgasms.

    She dumped him and he's back to masturbating now...
     
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      I like this time of the day, or anytime of the day when I'm accidentally on line at the same time as yourself. Guaranteed to give me a smile.
       
      Hussie6776, Oct 20, 2015
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  14. seafoam1

    seafoam1 Porn Star

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    I have had this issue from time to time. Vary your technique, lick and suck the shaft and balls, use your hand and switch hands, do the asshole trick and just try to be creative.
    Even if I don't cum from just oral I've always been happy with a HJ into the mouth.
     
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  15. Lani87

    Lani87 Sex Lover

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    Thanks Everyone For Your input. I'm going to try putting my finger near the ass part. He likes it when I kiss his ass but is very shy about it.
     
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  16. wettyDorothy

    wettyDorothy Newcumer

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    Good sex need time and preparation..ask him to write a list(if his shy) what make him on and what turn off during sex..and u do the same with a glass of wine..and change the papers..
     
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  17. Heywood123

    Heywood123 Porn Star

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    What you should do is give me a blow job then I will know more about what's going on
     
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  18. plzufirst

    plzufirst Porn Star

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    But that would only assist YOUR understanding. I think what WE all need is to see a video of her oral technique.
    Then we can all be helpful! :bed_love:
     
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  19. wettyDorothy

    wettyDorothy Newcumer

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    Hahaha..yeah we all need to see that ..and than we can advice better dear
     
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  20. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    Slide your finger up his ass and try to find his prostate......believe me you will know when you have found it!;)

    Good luck!

    Thinskin
     
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